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Apr 02 • 4 min read

Nobody Read It. Everyone Showed Up.


Good morning,

Have you ever tried to get into a book club and failed? For years, while I moved around the country, that was me. I wanted in badly. I wrote one of my earliest pieces for PROVOKED about book club gatekeeping. Yes, it's a thing.

When I finally settled in New York, I did what any woman with strong opinions does. I got a few friends together and started one. Besides the sometimes unhinged conversations, book club forces me to read books I might never have picked—or finished—on my own. From The Bee Sting to The Wager—we’ve covered some ground. Not all of it worth the time (Bee Sting, I’m talking to you). It’s the WTF conversations that keep me coming back.

Somewhere in the middle of all this, I sat down with Emmy Award-winning writer Judy Rothman Rofé and we started batting around ideas for a humor column. What came out of it is Book Club Drama—a fictional series. It unfolds in six episodes, dropping monthly—like a TV season. Judy has developed female characters with the kind of detail that makes you think she’s been reading your group chat.

She hasn’t. Probably.

Episode 1 is live today. I hope you enjoy it as much as we’ve enjoyed building it.

One more thing: For those of you ready for more reading—or looking for a new kind of community—we’re launching a PROVOKED book club in the next couple of months, exclusively for PROVOKEDplus members.

And if you have a suggestion for our very first book pick, I’m all ears.


HUMOR | Series Launch: Book Club Drama

Book Club Drama: Season 1, Episode 1

BY JUDY ROTHMAN ROFÉ

Where fiction meets friction: Emmy Award-winning writer Judy Rothman Rofé makes her PROVOKED debut—and she brought the whole book club with her. A book. Eight women. One group chat that escalates faster than you'd think possible. A selection that not everyone finished, opinions that nobody kept to themselves, and a meeting that prompted an apology to the neighbors. New episodes drop monthly, six in all. This is what happens when women who have things to say get together over a book—and salmon.


CULTURE | TRAVEL

Sardinia, Revisited

BY GIANNELLA M. GARRETT

Thirty years ago, it was a backwater nobody could find on a map. Today it's a global destination, and most visitors still miss the whole point of it. What happens when you return to a place that formed you, alone, with nothing to prove and nowhere to be? The answer involves a 3,000-year-old cave, a punishing mountain, and the kind of clarity that only comes from going back. READ MORE


PROVOKED stays free. Always. If you believe in what we’re building and want to go a little deeper, PROVOKEDplus gives you the Sunday edition, book club, live gatherings, and a closer seat to what’s next.


RELATIONSHIPS

The Lie of FOMO Sex

BY MARIAH DOUGLAS

Culture insists everyone else is having wild, satisfying sex. The data tells a very different story. So why are so many women measuring themselves against a standard nobody's actually meeting while their true desires go unanswered? A look at who's setting the bar, and why the only person qualified to reset it is you. READ MORE


TAKE NOTE

Timely and worth your attention.

🍎 Apple turns 50 this week: founded on April Fools' Day, 1976, by two guys in a garage. Wozniak had already offered his design to HP. They passed. Five times. The third founder supposedly sold his 10 percent stake early for $2,300, convinced it was too risky to see through. That stake would be worth $370 billion today. Risk looks very different depending on who can afford to take it.

🔬 Scientists just mapped the full nerve network of female pleasure anatomy for the first time in medical history. The male equivalent was completed in 1998. Nearly 30 years later. Our lady parts didn't even make it into standard anatomy textbooks until the 20th century—introduced, when they finally arrived, as "a small version of" the male counterpart. Do the math and then decide whether that gap was really about science.

📺 Netflix just launched Age of Attraction, a dating show where contestants hide their ages until they've already fallen for someone. Sounds almost progressive: love first, numbers later. Looking closer, every woman is described by her energy, her vitality, her ability to keep up. The oldest woman is 54. The oldest man is 60. And he's paired with a 27-year-old, because of course he is. Is this cringy or are we here for it?


LIFE

What If 'Til Death Do Us Part' Is Just Codependency With Better Branding?

BY CHRISTINA METCALF

The anniversary cards. The applause for endurance. Nobody asks what's actually holding it together. Is it obligation, optics, or something that stopped resembling love a long time ago? An honest piece about what keeps some marriages intact, and why celebrating years together isn't the same as celebrating what those years can cost. READ MORE


READER SPOTLIGHT

“Great article. I had a great career and am really proud of that. Now, leave me alone! Stop waiting. Stop pushing. And I’m talking to MYSELF when I say this too. It has been hard to unwind! To enjoy just shopping for nothing, binge TV, stare at the lake, paint by number, play games on my phone, play cards … my sanity is my purpose.” — Cindy on Hold the Next Act—I’m Taking an Intermission

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OUR SHORT LIST

📺 Return of the Material Girl. Madonna's back on the screen in a new role — this time with Seth Rogen.

👠 Fashion is ruthless. It doesn't have to be punishing too. Anne Hathaway pushes for much-needed change in The Devil Wears Prada 2.

✂️ The hottest haircut of spring has a name problem. The "granny bob" is chic, structured, and was iconic on Jackie Kennedy. So who exactly decided to call it granny?

💸 The gender pay gap won't close until 2088—and new research shows it starts before women even hit submit on a job application. The system is working exactly as designed.

🍫 The 12-ton KitKat bar heist didn't end at the theft. Now there’s a tracker to see if your snack is part of the crime.


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