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Jan 15 • 4 min read

Who You Invite Changes Everything


Good morning,

This week, I want to talk about something I rarely discuss out loud: who we invite into this community.

PROVOKED isn't a newsletter. It's a conversation. And conversations change depending on who shows up.

I could grow this audience the easy way—by pouring more money into Meta ads and chasing numbers. We do use ads—some of you found us that way, and I'm glad you're here. But ads don't build community. People do.

The women who make PROVOKED feel sharp, funny, raw, and thoughtful don't come from algorithms. They come from you. From personal recommendations. From a simple this made me think of you.

That's why we launched a PROVOKED rewards program.

Not as a gimmick. Not as a grab. Just a way to say it plainly: If you're helping shape this community, you should benefit from it.

When you invite a friend you actually want in this space—someone curious, opinionated, open—you're not just growing our audience. You're protecting the culture.

And that matters more to me than numbers ever will.


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CULTURE

What Would Mary Shelley Think of Guillermo del Toro’s Take On Frankenstein?

BY VIVIAN MANNING-SCHAFFEL

Mary Shelley was just 18 when she began writing Frankenstein—the daughter of one of feminism’s founding voices, already mourning a first child, and born to a mother who died of sepsis days after her birth. Now Guillermo del Toro has reimagined her monster, joining centuries of other men who’ve felt compelled to do the same. But what would Shelley think of yet another man explaining her work? A look at the feminist origins of a story men keep trying to claim as their own.


TAKE NOTE

Timely and worth your attention.

🎤 Amy Poehler, 54, did what women over 50 do best: arrived late and still took the trophy. Her Good Hang with Amy Poehler podcast launched in March 2025 and just won the first-ever Golden Globe for Best Podcast—beating a slate of male-hosted shows and The Mel Robbins Podcast in a brand-new category. In a world where every man with Wi-Fi thinks his thoughts deserve 90 minutes, Poehler showed up, had a good hang, and reminded everyone: When a midlife woman picks up a mic, it’s worth tuning in.

🥗 The food pyramid gets turned upside down: After decades of carbs and confusion, official nutrition guidance finally admits protein matters and ultraprocessed food is a problem. With protein on top and “real” foods back in favor, none of this feels especially groundbreaking. We’ll take the progress—then question the full-fat dairy push, butter halo, and the remarkably vague guidance on alcohol.

🖤 Saks Fifth Avenue files for bankruptcy this week, less than two years after a debt-heavy acquisition spree meant to “modernize luxury.” Stores remain open, executives make hopeful statements, but the damage was done long before the filing. When venture capital and private equity treat legacy brands like assets instead of ecosystems, women lose more than stores. We lose places that once understood us.


BRAIN AND BODY

The Longevity Hustle: How Fear, Beauty, and Big Money Are Targeting Women Over 50

BY JOANNE HELPERIN

The longevity boom is here for a reason. As women over 50 confront aging bodies and an often-dismissive medical system, billion-dollar wellness industries rush in with promises and fear. This clear-eyed investigation cuts through the hype to ask what’s real, what’s exploitative, and how women can stop paying for panic.


MONEY

Money Is Power. And Guess Who Has It Now?

BY MARGIE ZABLE FISHER

The numbers are clear: Women are becoming the dominant financial force of the next decade. What’s less clear—and long overdue—is whether we’re willing to claim that power. From protecting what you’ve built to spending with intention—don't wait. Here's a smart reset with actionable steps for the new year.


HUMOR

Discontinued, Slightly Unhinged, and Taking It Personally

BY ABBY HEUGEL

A favorite lipstick disappears. A mascara you’ve trusted for years vanishes. Suddenly you’re being offered “what’s trending on Instagram" by a 20-something. When the small, reliable products that make us look awake, competent, and vaguely pulled together get discontinued, it doesn't feel like vanity. It feels personal.


READER SPOTLIGHT

"Excellent piece! I claimed my space a few years ago and we both are much happier and healthier. Thank you for writing what so many are afraid to talk about. I always refrained from telling anyone I claimed my own bed space, etc., but now, it’s chic to do so. 🙂” — Kathy on My Own Bedroom Was Just the Start: Selfhood and Autonomy Inside Marriage

Want to be featured next? Comment on your favorite piece—we read them all.


DEAR READER

Three new stories coming straight from our readers: smart, funny, fearless, and unfiltered.

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BY DR. ROBIN BUCKLEY

For Me, Solo Travel Is Lonely—and Sad

BY SAMANTHA PRIESTLEY

AI Doesn’t Make Us Obsolete. Experience Matters More.

BY J.L. EDWARDS


OUR SHORT LIST

🏆 The best part of the Golden Globes wasn't on TVit was a side room, no-cameras, chaos girl party.

👄Susan Lucci got emotional this week talking about the 56th anniversary of All My Children’s premiere. A return? Don't rule anything out.

🍽️ Gourmet magazine is back (sort of)rebooted as a digital newsletter by five 30-something journalists after Condé Nast let the trademark expire.

Quick self-check: Are you a Rebel, Questioner, Upholder, or Obliger? Take Gretchen Rubin’s Four Tendencies quiz. (I'm a Rebel. Shocker.)

🩺 Wait, what? Women are still doing most of the healthkeepingincluding scheduling 82 percent of men’s medical appointments.

✍️ Are you a writer? Got an unapologetic POV? We’re looking for freelancers with a distinct voice. Pitch Us, We're Ready!

📝 Missed a Thursday drop? All of our past newsletters are waiting for you right here.

⌨️ Our newsletter and articles are written by Susan and the talented writers of PROVOKED. Get to know the women behind them here.

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