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Oct 23 • 5 min read

Your Style? It’s Personal.


Good morning,

This week at PROVOKED, we’re celebrating two things: you—and that you give a damn about what you wear.

First, you. We just launched Dear Reader—a space where you step into the writer’s room. These aren’t polite submissions; they’re stories you write that remind us why being seen and heard isn’t optional.

And since you’ve been asking for more fashion? We listened. I wrote about Diane Keaton’s legacy—and how our paths paralleled in the ’90s. Plus, our first Dear Reader piece is calling out fashion’s biggest blind spot: age. We even dropped a new Style section on the site. Check it out.

Style, like a good story, isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up as yourself—wrinkles, opinions, and all.

P.S. Got something to say? If you’re interested in submitting a pitch to be featured in Dear Reader, hit us up. We’re listening.


STYLE

Because relevance has no age or hemline.

Diane Keaton Left the Blueprint for Dressing. Now Use It.

BY SUSAN DABBAR

Diane Keaton leaves behind more than iconic film roles. From Annie Hall to Baby Boom, her style was undeniable. The question isn’t how to imitate her. In her passing, she leaves something so enduringly rich: a fashion philosophy for women who refuse to disappear. She reminds us that eccentricity can be a method, not a mood, and that clarity will always outshine conformity. Read this before you face your mirror tomorrow.


LIVING OUT LOUD

Real stories of rewiring, relationships, and this messy, beautiful life.

Aging Backward, Moving Forward: The Benjamin Button Approach to Self-Acceptance

BY MELISSA T. SHULTZ

What if getting older meant finding your way back: not to who you were, but to who you still are? Consider reframing aging as a return to curiosity and play: rediscovering the child who never vanished, the one who still dares to imagine firsts. Because sometimes the surest way forward isn’t reinvention. It’s remembering what made you feel alive in the first place. Aging backward isn’t nostalgia. Call it reclamation.


DEAR READER

Welcome to Dear Reader—These stories come straight from our readers: smart, funny, fearless, and unfiltered.

Fashion Celebrates All Diversity Except Age—and That Blind Spot Is Costly

BY CARMELLA HEVERIN

The fashion industry still treats women over 50 as invisible. With $15 trillion in spending power, ignoring us isn’t just bias; it’s bad business. “Age wasn’t aspirational, so age wasn’t welcome,” writes former fashion exec/PROVOKED reader Carmella Heverin, who confesses her own awakening to fashion’s ageism—and the moment she finally saw the blind spot she helped create. The industry’s blind spot isn’t age. It’s vision.

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BRAIN AND BODY

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AI in Therapy: Concerning or Comforting?

BY DR. GAYLE MACBRIDE, PhD, LP

As AI creeps into the therapy room, it’s blurring boundaries between connection and code. Is instant advice the same as insight? And what happens when your deepest secrets live in the cloud? Therapy’s newest listener never blinks, never breathes, and never passes the box of tissues. It can read your words, but not the room.


TAKE NOTE

Timely and worth your attention.

💎 Art Really Does Imitate Netflix. In a scene straight out of Money Heist, thieves pulled off a four-minute smash-and-scoot at the Louvre in broad daylight—escaping with over $100 million in Napoleon-era jewels. How does anyone get away with this in 2025? Precision, power tools, and TikTok-level audacity. These weren’t just royal baubles; they were symbols of female power. Josephine would’ve smirked: At least they knew the good stuff.

🇯🇵 Japan Has Elected Its First Female Prime Minister. And the victory is far from simple. At 64, Sanae Takaichi has shattered a historic barrier in a country ranked 118th in global gender equality. But her hard-line conservative record—opposing same-sex marriage and women keeping their surnames—has many questioning whether representation without reform counts as progress. For some, her rise signals not change, but consolidation.

⚠️ Amazon Meltdown. It only took one bad line of code in Virginia for Amazon’s cloud to knock hospitals offline, freeze banking apps, and silence Alexa. Venmo gone. DoorDash gone. Reddit gone. Even the NYT was in a time out. Why should women over 50 care? Because we’re one outage away from losing access to our money, our health records, and our autonomy. The future’s not digital. It’s dependent.


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OUR PICKS

Books to bring along when navigating loss.

Reading Through Grief

BY BETH KANTER

Books to bring along when navigating loss. It starts with an empty chair, a quiet house. Grief has no roadmap, but sometimes a book can help you breathe again. This curated list offers poetry, memoir, and small-but-mighty reads for when your mind fogs, your heart aches, or you need proof that someone else survived the unthinkable. These are companions, not cures—voices that remind you you’re not walking this alone.


READER SPOTLIGHT

✒️ Here's what one fabulous reader had to say this week:

"Yes, to all of it. Invisibility is a superpower that I can turn on and off. In my middle age I moved mountains. Socially, emotionally, and economically. Now, as I can wave at 70, I am happy to report I have gone full crone. No bra, silver hair, and absolutely no f*cks left to give. Always my choice."—Kathryn on Middle-aged Women: Myths, Truth, and the Eye Roll You Deserve

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OUR SHORT LIST

Informative, quirky, and fun.

📚 Harper Lee out this week. A rare chance to hear her voice again in a newly unearthed collection from To Kill a Mockingbird’s Harper Lee, The Land of Sweet Forever.

🖤 Hermès makes history. Grace Wales Bonner, 35, has been named the new menswear creative director—becoming the first Black woman to lead design at a major fashion house.

🚽 Big Tech just moved into your bathroom. A new poop-tracking toilet cam promises better gut health through surveillance. Because what’s more 2025 than data-driven digestion?

📸 She called no attention to herself. Finding Vivian Maier uncovers the secret life of a nanny who quietly shot more than 100,000 photographs, now considered one of the century's greatest archives of humanity—free on YouTube.


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